If you post a lot of pictures and haven’t updated your privacy settings, it’s easy for cybercriminals to make some educated guesses about how best to approach you.Tip: If you receive such a claim, even if you’d really like to meet someone new, dismiss the conversation and don’t add that person as a friend.
Shame continues to be a reliable way to extort money.Let’s say you’re scrolling through profiles on a dating site and you spot a nice woman who you might like to date.You send her a message, and she responds, saying she wants to get to know you! But behind the guise of that sweet-sounding woman may actually be a man — a cybercriminal who only wants to get your phone number to scam you.Other things to pay attention to even on legitimate dating sites — let’s face it, scammers are everywhere — include the following: If they supposedly come from an English-speaking nation, be on the lookout for awful spelling and grammar.Not everyone looking for love online has the soul and finesse of William Shakespeare — and there’s certainly nothing wrong with not being a native English speaker — but scammers often cross borders electronically in search of new victims, and so truly terrible grammar is a red flag. Native English speakers have a natural cadence when they speak and write that isn’t easily mimicked.Be suspicious if something seems “off” about the tone or pacing.
If messages and profile descriptions read well, pay attention.
Most crime victims receive sympathy and support, Whitty points out, but with online fraud, friends and family often blame the victim. '” As we approach the official day of love, many of us will receive the traditional anonymous valentines — albeit in digital form.
It usually doesn’t take a rocket scientist to guess the sender, but sometimes, the admirer is actually unknown.
Last year, Russian police arrested two men from Smolensk who pretended to be young, attractive girls stealing the hearts of men in Moscow and then threatening and tricking them into sending large sums of money.
The criminals were found to have taken roughly 1 million Russian rubles (about US $16,500) with this scheme.
The strategies these fraudsters use are highly sophisticated.” Whitty, whose field is cyberpsychology, has acquired much experience working with victims of romance frauds.