Make sure to follow through the next time you see each other!
For example, you could send, “I’m sitting here at home alone, thinking of you.Once you’re gone, text your partner that you left something special for them to find.You can give your partner clues if you feel nice, or let them figure it out on their own.Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist, to help us out with the details.No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions remain anonymous.This is a good game to play with partners who might feel a bit shy about discussing your personal sex life over text.
Tell your partner you want to write a story together, where you take turns coming up with sentences.
Ask your partner to read it at the same time you’re reading it.
Copy and paste the specific sentences that you really like, or discuss your favorite scenes. Text your partner and ask them to guess something about your clothing.
You can put a sexy twist on it by making all of the questions sex-related.
For example, “would you rather have me kiss your neck or your ear?
We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship.