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Most of the group had stumbled on masturbation or been told about it by friends.Oral sex seemed to have come in the moment, so to speak.
"I don't remember how she described the actual act of intercourse, but I know she did describe it before I was past the fifth grade.She always made it very clear that intercourse was something that one must never do until after marriage."She told me a story of a girl who had been in her crowd in high school. I'm sure it was to drive home what happens to girls who have sex when they're not married." J., 60, is a businesswoman, feminist, writer and mother of two grown children, a daughter and a son: "I went to a progressive elementary school and we had a very good class in human biology.She was the only one in the focus group whose parents were both available to talk to her about sex."I also learned a few things from the book ' The Joy of Sex,' which was on our family bookshelf.And the women had learned about menstruation in sex education classes in school.
What follows is what they told me about how they learned about sex. is a writer in her mid-30s and the mother of two children, a 9-year-old girl and a 4-year-old boy.
I was at a party recently, one of the first parties I had been to since the birth of my daughter.
I felt a little frayed around the edges -- after all, it was the first chance for uninterrupted adult conversation I had had in months. I like to smoke when I drink, which is seldom enough to make it a social quirk but not enough to make it a habit.
I was always willing to listen to what they wanted to tell me, but I wasn't much for asking for more.
Now that I have my own 9-year-old daughter, I really appreciate how candid they were about sex.
" My husband's name is Jack, so that's not an option.