Reentering the dating
“When you enter your 40s, you realize life is not always black and white.
They are a distraction from the best life has to offer.” In your 40s, you shouldn’t be wasting your time with people who aren’t adding to your life, so as much as possible, leave behind the people who are negative forces and dedicate more time and energy to those who bring out the best in you.“We as men can get complacent with our journey and catch ourselves merely existing,” says Jeff Bergman, a performance coach and motivational speaker (who has survived testicular cancer, cardiac arrest, and stroke).“Much like the world-class thinkers and pioneers of our time, absorb the very principles that led them to greater heights—seek mentors and develop a progressive mindset.” For more great advice, check out these 20 Things That Only Men Over 40 Know.If your current career isn’t striking the right balance, “There is still plenty of time to change,” say the Polczynskis.“There is plenty of time to have the career you truly want to have.” For more career advice, here are The 25 Ways the Smartest Men Get Ahead at Work.“It’s important in our 40s to realize areas in our life we need to establish boundaries so we can develop healthy relationships along with a healthy work/life balance.
Establishing boundaries will decrease stress, leading to better personal health.” And here are the 10 Ways Successful Men Cut Stress.
But you might also consider making a “To-Who List” of people to spend time with or just check in with.
Leadership consultant Gary Bradt, who coined the term, describes how to do a To-Who: “Whoever it is, write down their name and commit to connecting with them that day.
So set certain times during the day (or week) when you’ll check your email and let your colleagues know that’s when you’ll be looking.
It might feel uncomfortable at first, but the result will mean more time for deeper, uninterrupted thinking and working during your days.
Break your routine and come up with something a bit adventurous. And while you’re at it, memorize these 15 Ways to Impress Any Woman.