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Children come into the world with a given temperament, and in the case of these children, they are unusually sensitive. When you touch the skin of a burn victim, he or she experiences pain that is far greater than the pain that might be experienced by an ordinary person from the same type of touch.suggests that a person with BPD has grown up in an invalidating environment.

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Some maintain that the shows’ appeal constitutes an extension of fictional drama, and is thus driven by positive feelings like empathy and compassion.Isn’t it true that we are overly optimistic not only about ourselves but also about our loved ones, and we can’t imagine that we or they would find themselves in embarrassing situations?Conversely, isn’t it the case that we would like to see our enemies embarrass themselves, and we can easily imagine this occurring?Unsurprisingly, participants who scored highly in the self-disclosure measure also tended to be more interested in participating in reality shows.On the whole, approval for family members’ participation in reality shows was higher than the desire for self-participation.If, on the other hand, empathy is the main reason why people enjoy these shows, the correlation should be positive.

Overall, interest in participating in reality shows was not very high, but crucially, the more that participants said they enjoyed the shows, the more likely they were to say that they’d like to participate, or for a loved one to participate.

In which case, surely it’s possible that we enjoy reality shows in part because of feeling empathy and sympathy when watching participants we like, while at the same time finding enjoyment in seeing those we do not like in their most humiliating and embarrassing moments? Main image shows the chair from Big Brother 14 in the UK, via Diamond Geezer/Flickr Post written by Dr Tomasz Witkowski for the BPS Research Digest.

I think that before we trumpet to the whole world the researchers’ “good news” interpretation of their study, it would be desirable to get answers to these questions first. Tomasz is a psychologist and science writer who specializes in debunking pseudoscience in the field of psychology, psychotherapy and diagnosis.

Others claim that reality TV viewers are driven by a voyeuristic desire to intrude on others and to see them in their most private and embarrassing moments.

Michal Hershman Shitrit and Jonathan Cohen from University of Haifa in Israel recently tested these contrasting perspectives for a study in the .

Dr Sharp: Ever since the first descriptions of BPD and specification of its diagnostic criteria in the DSM [Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders], there was no restriction placed on diagnosing it in adolescents.