What’s rough to one person could be tame to another.If you’re seeing someone for a while, and they confess that they love rough sex, don’t just grin widely and assume you know what they expect you to do in bed. Rough sex is the type of sex where you involve pain in the sexual act, to increase sexual pleasure!
Rough sex doesn’t have to be a means to abuse each other or feel powerful.If you’re having rough sex for the first time, don’t let your awkwardness show.Start slow by kissing more aggressively and using your teeth, but as you get more into the act, apply more pressure on your partner, either by using your hands or your pelvis.Firstly, rough sex is best enjoyed with a partner you trust.Both of you know each other’s limitations and capabilities, and it’s easy to know where to draw the line.[Read: 13 untold sex secrets you really need to know] The psychological thrill of rough sex One of the sexier things about rough sex is how contagious it is in bed.
If you claw your lover’s back with your nails, the rage they experience will subconsciously force them to reciprocate your rough moves with their own, which can lead to a heightened sexual experience for both of you.
Run your hands through your lover’s hair and grip it firmly with your fingers while whispering something dirty or biting your lover’s neck.
And when you feel comfortable enough, run your nails against your partner’s back, deeper with each confident thrust of your pelvis.
One partner usually initiates the rough sex while the other partner experiences the physical pain and gets aroused by it.
If you’re more dominant in the relationship or in real life and have a career or a lifestyle where you’re not pushed around much, you may enjoy submissive rough sex more than other people.
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