Im not dating average girl lyrics
Plus, by being so aggressive, she leaves very little room for the guy to pursue her and when a guy doesn’t have that, his interest will quickly plummet.According to Taylor’s song lyrics, she’s been blindsided more than a few times by guys who came on all strong in the beginning and then dropped her seemingly out of the blue.
I have to say, there is a lot of truth in that statement. That’s not to say they enjoy games, what they enjoy is the feeling of winning over a great girl, a girl who they worked for and had to earn.In a recent interview with Parade magazine she confessed: “I think every girl’s dream is to find a bad boy at the right time, when he wants to not be bad anymore.” I think we can call commiserate with her on this one.In theory, we’d all like a “nice, caring, sweet” guy who treats us like gold.In reality, we find ourselves drawn to the mean, troubled guys who can’t be bothered while secretly holding onto the hope that we’ll be the one to get him to change his evil ways. If a guy is a known womanizer with a reputation for breaking hearts (ahem, John Mayer), then there’s a high probability he will also break your heart.One of the most essential rules when it comes to relationship is you can’t enter into a relationship with a dream or an ideal, you get into a relationship with an actual person. Maybe at some point he’ll change his ways, but unless he’s at that point right now you’d be best advised to stay far away.It may seem like the guys she dates are just jerks, but I think that’s unfair.
I’m sure at one point they did have feelings for her and were sincere when they pursued the relationship.
I don’t really pay close attention to pop culture these days, but Taylor is one famous face who I can’t seem to escape, and who’s troubles in the love department have captured my attention (and sympathy! All I know is this is a girl who gives her all to relationships, usually gets burned as a result, then makes millions writing songs about it.
It doesn’t sound like such a bad deal, but I’ll bet that Taylor would happily exchange a lot of those millions to find true love. Like many women out there, Taylor can’t seem to resist the bad boys.
A bad boy doesn’t just wake up one day and decide he no longer wants to be bad.
That may happen in movies, but it definitely ain’t real life.
This isn’t only true of relationships (or men for that matter), it’s true across the boards: people in general value that which they had to work for significantly more than that which is given to them freely.