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The #1 most frequent answer men cited about when they knew a woman had future-wife potential was something rather…. They basically said she was really a “nice” person.Initially this sounded so boring, but I asked for examples to help me understand if there might be more to it.
Rachel Greenwald is the author of the new book: Why He Didn’t Call You Back: 1,000 Guys Reveal What They Really Thought About You After Your Date.It was just a small thing, but it impressed me how thoughtful she was.”—Brian, age 34, Denver, CO “As a doctor, I used to be on call several nights a week.I was always exhausted, but I was really looking forward to our first date.Not only that, she sat quietly for about 20 minutes and read a book. Here’s my theory about all the stories men remembered: it’s basically “like attracts like.” The guy looking for a truly nice woman understands the importance of kindness, and is most likely a nice person himself.When I woke up, she said she could see I was exhausted and thought I could use a quick nap. We’ve been married 46 years.”—Murray, age 85, Denver, CO Kind… Of course, there will be individual exceptions, but from what I’ve seen, the guys who stand the test of time-the ones who make the best husbands and continue treating you with respect after “I do”-are impressed during the dating phase by a nice person.The word “nice” gets a bad rap in our society today: I think it is often synonymous with “boring” (which was my own initial assumption! But from my research, I can assure you that marriage-minded men sit up and take notice of women who display kindness before any other trait.
The rest of my 1,000 dating “exit interviews” highlight all the small comments and gestures to avoid during the early stages of dating when first impressions are so crucial.
She is also the New York Times Bestselling author of Find a Husband After 35( Using What I Learned at Harvard Business School).
Rachel is a frequent relationship guest on The Today Show, The Early Show, CNN, National Public Radio, The Dennis Prager Show, and has been featured in Oprah Magazine, Fortune Magazine, The New Yorker, People, USA Today, and many others.
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