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Disappointingly, the few that are available tend to date and marry people of other races usually to get legal status.’ Again due to lack of trust for western-based African women who are generally perceived to be arrogant, argumentative, disrespectful, non-submissive and dishonest or unfaithful, other men go to look for women partners in their various home countries.
The Desire to marry wealthy men or men with legal status: It has been established that many African women only look for men who are rich and/or have legal status.Hence, the need for them to capitalize on their young age, looks, and fertility to get the kind of man that they want.For religious, academic or educational, as well as career or occupational reasons some young women dedicate less time to socializing and searching for that “decent man.” By the time they realize the need to have families, age had already caught up with them; and as looks or beauty and fertility commonly decrease with age, they end up in a position where attracting men becomes a bit more difficult.Why are many African women abroad now seriously looking for husbands or serious partners? Of the 25 women who agreed to be intensively interviewed, 15 were single, 5 were in serious relationships, and 5 were married. 25 out of the 150 initial respondents, then willingly and confidently provided profound information on single African women abroad.It has in fact become an abomination in many African countries for people from certain “rival” tribes to get married.
Sadly, beautiful young women are missing the opportunity to get married to men they love, all in the name of tradition or tribal hatred.
As one Ghanaian respondent mentioned: ‘There is this guy who loves me so much ….
I love him too, but I know my parents will be gutted and disappointed in me if I tell them that he is from … I’m just scared.’ Spending Prime years pursuing educational and Career goals: It might sound quite harsh, but one revelation made is that the best moment for most women to get suitable partners or husbands is when they are in their Prime.
This is certainly not to discourage female education or scare women who aspire to reach the apogee of the academic ladder.
What has been pointed out is that ladies who achieve higher academic successes are often erroneously viewed by many men as domineering, women who have less respect for their husbands and are thus hard to get along with.
Unnecessary church rules/codes: Many churches or religious denominations do not allow their members, especially the women to marry outside the church.