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The constant spitting (apparently due to chewing tobacco), public urination (and by this I mean pulling it out anywhere there is space and going), nose picking and staring at me (usually whilst also fiddling with their nether regions) are a few of the distasteful activities I observed.
According to the article more than 65% of Indian men believed that women should tolerate violence to keep the family together and that women sometimes deserved to be beaten, furthermore 24% admitted to having committed sexual violence in their lives. Enjoy the complete book by purchasing your own copy at the Bible Gateway Store.As a single, hetereosexual woman, its only natural that I spend some time observing the opposite sex as I go through my travels.Whilst I am not looking for a long-term relationship per se, I do enjoy the company of men (platonic and romantic) and it would be nice to make some friends in my new homeland.As I am traveling, I most often come across the average man on the street, like the stall owner or rickshaw driver.These behaviours appear to be generally accepted in Indian culture, no one bats an eyelid going about their day.
My simplistic explanation on why this behaviour is tolerated comes down to the arranged marriage.
Don’t get me wrong, I am far less interested in a person’s looks, but a sense of personal style is part of what makes someone attractive in my opinion, and what someone’s mother finds attractive is not usually what a potential mate may find appealing.
After chatting to a few men online, it seemed that most were far more interested in my citizenship than who I was, which is an immediate fail.
However I did meet one man through Shaadi.com, Prem and I dated for a few months.
We got along well and I enjoyed his company, until is philandering ways became apparent. It felt like he was a little boy hiding from his mother, not the strapping man that I had thought he was.
We may meet up again and I sincerely hope we do (unless of course he reads this and becomes terrified of me).