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Regardless you continue to deal with him and it’s like you two are basically in a relationship.You hang out, talk, and do things that a girlfriend does which leaves you wondering where his head is really at.
I know many women may be saying “why can’t men just be more honest about what they want”.If you continue to give a man girlfriend benefits (some would say wife benefits) without any commitment then many men are likely going to take it.His decision to go along with this should not be confused with some secret desire you hope he has to one day be with you.Let me make something painfully clear to all the women reading this.Most men don’t have to like you to want to have sex with you.He still wants the sex, companionship, and all the other things that a girlfriend provides which makes him feel good when he needs it.
He likes the security of having you around and he will always have a fall back as long as he keeps you close. If that man wanted to be in a relationship with you then he would make it happen.
If you choose to entertain this man and it all ends in disappointment he still can say “well I told you I didn’t want a relationship”.
The confusion comes from not understanding how many men operate.
If other women come along that he wants to engage with; well he wants to be free to do as he pleases without any valid issue being raised on your part.
What his actions are showing you is that he still wants the benefits and comfort of a relationship.
You can continue to give and give and give yet still find yourself many months later with no relationship and possibly with him moving while making some other women his girlfriend.